25-ing and Vibe-ing

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I’m all about vibes. Vibes don’t lie. Your vibes attract your tribes. And your tribes define your vibes. Simple but let’s not get it twisted. I’m not saying you should be full of smiles every single day, but be true to your soul. Like, it’s okay not to be okay babes!

Everyone has their moment, and everyone has their success but I’m hitting that quarter of a century mark with my life, where I literally cannot think of what I have achieved apart from being able to inhale a whole KFC Zinger box meal with extra wings because I’m a sasspot like that! You know it guurl!

No, on a real though, it made me think like it’s okay to be 25 and not have your shit together, lord it’s okay to be 30 and not have your shit together. We need to stop comparing ourselves to others and acting like older age is a deadline rather than a celebration of protecting the cooler years.

As I’ve aged, I word it like that because it makes me sound like I’m full of wisdom, I’ve realised that vibes are key in life. You know when you’re scrolling through Instagram, through the memes, the PDA, the travelgrams and THEN … the motivational quotes! Don’t act like you’re not aware of that Rocky Balboa feeling! When you’re feeling like an emblem for self-empowerment for about 40 minutes. You start talking to yourself, giving yourself pep talks like “Jeez, I feel so empowered! I am going to join that gym, big up chest day, BRO, I AM THE LEGEND OF LIFE!” and then about half hour later you’re sat in the pub thinking about whether you want egg fried rice with your chicken curry or noodles? Or wings in my case. Well my fellow friends, that first 40 minutes of pure positivity is what you need to feel for the rest of your life! Get those positive vibrations flowing through your soul! Get up in the morning and shake your booty because life is fruity! TREAT YO SELF TO LIFE!

But we all know, with every great take out meal. The aftermath becomes the worst of the night. You know, that greasy feeling like you ate too much, you start questioning whether it was worth it. You gotta sleep off that feeling because you feel like a butterball. THOSE ARE THE VIBES THAT YOU NEED TO STRAY AWAY FROM BABYGIRL! (or Babyboy, everyone is equal!) When things start to impact your soul in a negative manner.

Cut. (claps) It. (claps) Off. (claps)

If you cannot imagine the drama in the way I said that above line, I am nothing but disappointed. The sass is real folks! All I’m saying is focus on what surrounds you, if it’s bringing you down look up to better things, because there is nothing in this world that should make you feel like you don’t want to be here.

Keep your head high, because a sass a day keeps those Negative Nellies away!

-n